Sep 20, 2010

Mommies Discussion! JOIN IN!!


Just feel like having an open discussion here on the saying:

"Spare the rod and spoil the child"

If you have something to say about this, please share in the comment box.

4 comments:

Lynn Nasir said...

salam,

i think, spare the rod and spoil the child, isn't it? :D

i will never spoiled my children :) i'll use disciplines as guidance for them. tho we didn't have any rotan at home, we use our left hands. that way, we can always 'feels the same' pain. mostly we did the time out method. its not harsh, punishments will teach them independence. when parents aren't around, they will still be able to make choices between right from wrong.

wallualam.

Mama Iman said...

I do agree on that. However, use the rotan for serious problem only. Using rod the just because the child spill off a glass of water because you place it at a wrong place does not make sense. Anyway, read out about this Prophet saying. Useful for our guide to raise up children. :D

Sabda Rasulullah s.a.w. "Berguraulah dengan anak kamu kala usianya satu hingga tujuh tahun. Berseronok dengan mereka, bergurau hingga naik atas belakang pun tak apa. Jika suka geletek, kejar atau usik anak asalkan hubungan rapat. Lepas tujuh hingga 14 tahun kita didik dan ajar, kalau salah pukullah dia (sebagai pengajaran)" dimana yang nak dipukul tu? Tapak kakinya... bukan muka, punggung, telinga dan ditempat-tempat yang sensitif... itu salah...

MarDiah said...

Rotan tetap kena.. cuma cara dan pendekatan harus betul. Kalau dah mua nanti takde maknanya...

transformed housewife said...

Definitely not spoiling my children as they know they have to follow certain rules or else they'll be punished.

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